Thursday, February 18, 2010

Why Depression Push Away Loved One Do Depressed People Push Their Loved Ones Away?

Do depressed people push their loved ones away? - why depression push away loved one

My husband is in a deep depression. He encourages everyone who loves him. They even want a separation.

Her mother died since realizing a few months ago, and that family members not for him. Always the cancellation or annulment of the visits (residence) show out of town.

Why take care of the end of a relationship with the only people who are there for him and for him?

4 comments:

  1. I write a lot. I do not agree to talk with friends, go around the family and rarely talk to my mother on the phone (if you do not call me one day .. she asked if) you talk to him. Try to keep your marriage. Sounds like you convince them go see a therapist to have to deal with this problem. It is important that you yourself are always there when she rejects. Sometimes when I'm sad, I tell them to leave me alone and not .. but that's not what wanted.then if they leave me alone, I do not care.

    As with his dying mother, is probably still mourning and missing .. and therefore he can depressed. The family members may want to be around him .. Maybe they are afraid or suffer.

    It has nothing todo with you. This is something that depressed people experience. If you can not see someone, you can (or go together). They can tell you what you can do to help.

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  2. Dissociation appears to be the easiest thing for him. That someone would be sent to fulfill. I bet you sleep Trys much. Another form of separation from the world. He needs professional help. Best wishes

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  3. Please injustice of the family not to let it ..... own pain when my mother died 10 years ago, my brother, who had never been depressed in her life, to the point of pain and depression does not make a decision, even for a day .... This has, in combination with antidepressants and sleeping pills, a year to mourn the death of his mother. I am bipolar and when I am looking into a cycle of depression, my family, what I can .... I would like to isolate only for a while .... I understand and I are very strong. I hope you all for the help and especially for a doctor.

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  4. Several times I have done. The reason why I thought he was doing was that I changed my emotional state I was feeling a burden for my family. I'm hurt, hurt him so well, and I was ashamed. I also had the fear that harsh penalties placed in me for my problems, and gave them away before they had the chance.
    If you do not like it, it's almost impossible that anyone in the world you care to imagine.

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